Why walking out is out on your family
is not the solution
Many at time, people
are have adopted the idea of walking out form their homes as the ultimate solution
to the problems to they face. Let me tell you something, while having issues
with your partner of children is not encouraged, it is something that is
inevitable. Sometimes war is the best way to seek for peace. For everything
that happens in our lives, what I believe is that there is a reason for such. This
is the same as issues that occur in our homes. The family as far as I am
concerned will not be so much interesting if we don’t have issues with the
people residing in it. For every problem, there is always a solution but you
have to understand that what we are saying is a “solution” and not a “walking
out.”
Well let’s begin with
presenting an understanding of what we mean by walking out from the home and
the factors that influences such decisions. When we say you are walking out
from your home, what we mean is that when you have problem in your home, you
prefer to move out and probably stay outside without coming back to solve the problem;
or you prefer to share the issue with other people instead of your family.
People do this for a
number of reasons. Maybe they don’t wanna be tempted into hitting the nagging
wife, or maybe they don’t have solutions, or maybe they feel at peace with
people outside their home. That is why we posted earlier that people should
maintain high level of spirituality intheir homes.
You should know that
even if you run away from your family problems, you will still come back to
meet these problems. So, you should not run away. Instead you should seat back
and relax, then call the people involved together and try to find a solution
for the problem. As a parent, you will be laying the right foundation for your
kids and the family at large by serving as a role model to your family, and
also ending issues instantly without having to let them spread uncontrollably.
You see, the decision
is not to run away but to face your problems and solve it no matter what it
takes. So, don’t run away from your family, instead stay back and find the
cause of any problem that the family is facing as well as the solution to that
problem.
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