Don’t fight or nag in front of your kids

I have ever asked myself whether this is possible, but the fact is that I have also discovered through personal experience that it is absolutely possible. How could parents afford not to nag or fight in front of their kids? It seems possible if you consider the fact that people’s emotions and self-esteem are very different. In any case, I have had a short experience with one of our clients and I will like to share the story with you.

Snowyte: You nag and sometimes fight in front of you kids right?

Client: No No No! We never do that. If we have issues we just hang on until we enter our room because we live together in the same room. Once we are in, we will look the door and start unleashing it on each other. Once we are done, we kiss and make out. It sounds fake but this is the fact. We have developed this over the years. It is not something that we just built within few months or years.

Well that sorts it all out. Fighting in front of the kids or even nagging in their face is not matured. It is disrespectful and irresponsible. The kids will feel humiliated and might even freak out in some cases. It doesn’t serve as the right model of learning to these kids and it will also influence their respect towards you guys negatively. You know the code and desire are kids that will be relevant to the society and bringing joy to you through their responsible activities. Well, what you teach them by fighting and nagging in their face is that “irresponsibility” is “responsible”, “fighting” is “peace” and they will eventually grow up living their lives that way.

So please my fellow parents and wards. Don’t fight or nag in front of the kids. Let’s teach them a better way to live life.