Family: What it actually means

Ever wondered what family actually is all about? Well here is our little tiki-taka on what family actually means. It is more than just a synonym. Read meaning into it and understand it just like it is without twisting anything out of it.

Friendliness – there is no better friend than your family. Think of going out and not having any hope, then looking back to see any of your parents or siblings saying “Hey! We are always here for you.” The family is peace, love and unity. Family is sacrifice. It is only the family that is a true friend in deed. It doesn't seek much from you when you have none and doesn't demand you to present anything when you have all. The desire of your parents is for your own good. The family is a friend that you can really trust, and don’t be fooled around by the mare stories that are going around. There is no better friend than your family member(s)

All-is-one – Yeah! No matter whether you are the step-child or step-mother; maybe your guys are just complete biologically; or you can tell me the story of how you were adopted. Family is a place where everybody becomes one and equal. Are you having issues and have nobody to run to? Think or running to daddy or Mom. How about that you’re cute sister or the brother that has always been there for you even though he doesn't show that much from his actions. Feel at peace because in the family all are one.

Merciful – earlier on we discussed about “spirituality” in the family. You see, the family will never take you to jail or enact harsh laws on you for just little disobedience. The family is lovely and they still want you no matter how bad you are. Maybe this is a good reason to quite your bad habits like smoking, drinking, robbery, prostitution and go back to seek peace with that home which calls you theirs. For your family so much loves you that they keep their arms wide, that you might come back in whenever you feel like – irrespective of your bad behaviors

Irrevocable – Ah! Now you see why we said that “walking away from your family is not the best solution.” I know it, you think he loves you and you are ready to quite your family because of him? Hey lil girl! Look me deep into the eye. In your entire life, you can only have one and only one family. Maybe your case is different from the little girl ha? Well it doesn't matter what your case is, what matters is that you should understand that the family is irrevocable and you should never think of abandoning your family no matter the circumstances. This is because what seems wrong today can be made right tomorrow by your actions of not running away but instead seating back and seeking for solutions.

Lovely – wow, this reminds me of my mom. Family is so lovely. Seeing my little sister play video games, how I played a lot with my dad during my childhood days, my mom cooking and serving for all, my kid brothers working out the solutions to their assignments. Oh, there is never a place lovelier than the home. The home is beautiful and sweet. It is peaceful and nice. It is the abode that makes me feel like there is no much difference between heaven and earth. Your family is lovely and your family loves you my dear. Believe me as you ready this.

Yours – finally, you should know that your family is yours. If you have anything that will better the family in anyway, don’t hesitate to contribute. Is your partner little down financially and you have the cash to spun the family ahead? Please do so. Your sibling needs blood or kidney (maybe other organs) transplant and you can help? Don’t even think twice about that. This is because your family is yours and it is your responsibility to make sure that you help those who are yours in any way that you can.